Thursday, January 20, 2011

To Say I Love You.


"Just because you think you found the right person for you, doesn’t always mean that they feel you are the right person for them. That’s the challenge and the risk of opening up to someone, allowing yourself to become comfortable, even fall in love. And then one can ask and question, “I’m here, but you’re not? Where did you go left & I went right?” You can’t dial down feelings and we can’t turn back time. We can hope, even pray, that these intense feelings, desires & passions for that person, will subside if denied. That the ache in the heart will go away, that it will be filled with some other feeling, other than the love & happiness it once possessed. And then there’s the fear. The fear that if you close that door, that you will never allow it be reopened, even for that ‘imperfect’ perfect person, shall they discover that you are the one later in time. So you say to yourself, “Ok, I know the circumstances, I know they will never change, no matter how sincere the words.” So either accept it & be happy now or decide to change it, which would mean changing yourself, how you act, what you feel, what your dreams are, starting over. Is that a risk or a reward? No one knows the true definition of love or can one name the many different forms of love. Each and every one of us, only knows what we feel, what we define love to be. And the beauty of that…we don’t have to explain it to anyone but the one we love. You risk everything sometimes to come out with nothing. And so I’m going to go out on a limb here and say…I’m madly in love with you."
~ Author Unknown

So, my advice to you this evening? Take a chance. Force yourself to take risks that could crush you, or rise you up the the highest level of happiness you can imagine. Love someone worth loving. Let yourself feel something new. If you are unhappy, then how could taking a risk possibly hurt you? You can only get better from here. And things are looking up. Nothing stays the same unless you let it.

Xoxo.

10 comments:

Kat said...

great post!! you have a great blog! :)

im following you.
i hope you can follow me back ^-^

katslovefashion.blogspot.com

April said...

Nothing stays the same unless you let it. < Yes, best. Love this post.

Yasmeen Fahmy said...

I've been with my boyfriend for over two years....and it has been quite an emotional roller coaster. At the end of the day, I'm always happy. This was a sweet post :)

Yasmeen
Castle Fashion

Heart Charlie said...

Love the positive and positive post, I agree take a chance :)

abigail oliveros said...

wise words. thats why I've made my bucketlist...or watch movies that inspire me because i don't just want to sit on my butt doing nothing exciting. i don't want to live a routine life.

tons of love
abigail

Vanilla said...

I totally agree :) Take a chance.

Love, Vanilla

http://vanillaheartsstyle.blogspot.com/

Vicki said...

Great pic! I'm following back <3 xoxo

http://vickisfashionfairytale.blogspot.com

FRANKIE HEARTS FASHION said...

I love this! We operate in fear all too often. It's all about taking chances! xo

Miss Woody said...

love it !

Kat said...

oh courtney your are just too nice. i love you to pieces; and i hope you don't feel sore about not being featured yet: i've wanted to feature you for a long time but i am waiting for the next issue of missfits so i can talk about the magazine, you, and maddie, because you all are just the best out there in my opinion.